Are you a giver?
There are people who give by nature.
Light always comes from such people, they always have a resource: not financial, so spiritual, not spiritual, so a sense of humor, not it, so an easy approach to life or something else attractive that they generously bestow.
It’s great to be such a person, there are always a lot of people around who you can give joy and inspiration without much effort, they appreciate, notice, thank you for this.
There is only one problem, but it is significant, along with this unique ability to give, the ability to receive is often lost.
This means trusting others, admitting your weakness, asking for help, enjoying it.
And in a relationship, if you do not accept, then you are not in a couple, no matter how much you are ready to “invest”.
Often this is not realized, and in any incomprehensible situation it seems that you need to give more, try better.
In fact, sometimes you just need to stop and ask yourself: How do I feel about everything that is happening? What is here for me? Am I willing to let myself be taken care of, or am I just wanting to?
It's like playing chess, if only you "move", then there is no place for your partner, which means that the game fails.